Best Ways to Feel Closer After Sex
Take a moment to think about what you and your guy
usually do after sex. Chances are its sleep, eat, or flip on the TV. Not
exactly romantic, especially considering that the few hours afterward are one
of the best times to bond. “When you orgasm, hormones are released that make
you feel more connected,” says clinical sexologist. “Take advantage of that by
doing things to prolong the feeling.” But that doesn’t mean intense
conversations or eye gazing—little gestures can reap big benefits. Try these
tips tonight.
1. If you’re hungry, forgo ordering a pizza and
instead break out red wine and cheese. It will continue the sensual vibe you
had going, and the antioxidants in the vino will increase blood flow, relaxing
both of you.
2. Upgrade your usual post sex shower by giving each
other neck rubs. The bonding hormones oxytocin and prolactin that are released
when you climax are also triggered by touch, so the massage will extend the
feelings of closeness.
3. Before you get busy, turn off anything with an on
button, like your cell phones, laptops, and TV. That way, the only thing you’ll
be plugged into afterward is each other, not your Face book news feed or DVR
queue.
4. Instead of rolling over once the action is done,
drape one of your legs over his and rest your hands on his chest. It will keep
you connected without doing the spooning thing.
5. One word: candles. Light a few after you hook up
(instead of before) and the mood will instantly feel more romantic.
6. Play hooky and call in sex—er, sick after your
romp. Having to leave ASAP, whether it’s to meet a friend for brunch or attend
your can’t-miss Spin class, is a total mood killer. Reschedule your plans, and
enjoy a leisurely hour or two of doing nothing together in bed.
7. Set your iPod to a romantic playlist. Choose tunes
that remind you of your favorite moments together (like a concert you went to).
Just listening to them will make you two feel closer without having to speak.
8. Reverse-strip each other. Slowly button his shirt,
and let him zip up your skirt. Dressing each other is super intimate since it
taps in to the primal instinct to “preen” your mate.
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